Delhi….some good and some bad about it.

I will start by saying that this post is not to annoy anyone or to disrespect my country, I am just stating some facts. If you feel that somewhere along the Post I’ve crossed my lines, please let me know. Your comments are welcome……..

So I am in India these days after 7 years and nothing has changed. Everyone told me that I will see the difference once I get here, but nope I dont see any change at all. People still have enough time in their hands to take a peek in whats going on in your life, be it a woman or an old lady even guys do that too, go figure. The things I hate is, Why cant these people follow the traffic rules? And would you please get your hands off that horn? For crying out loud, you dont need to sit on it, once is enough but the fucking idiots dont get it and people like me get annoyed. Women have nothing better to do but stand outside with other female and gossip about what the fuck is wrong with the neighbour. They wouldnt even watch their kids and the stupid kids block the road with their cycles and all, and wouldnt budge. Can someone please tell these ladies to take care of the kids and gossip later? No, because its their right to gossip about everything and then they get upset about why the xyz person bought the new necklace for the wifey, I mean give me a freaking break.

The police are good for nothing, the traffic man is trying to extort money from you, if he cant then will give you a ticket. So far I havent seen anything in Delhi that made me say “oh yea Delhi has changed somewhat” or “I liked this in Delhi”. The other thing which get on my nerve is that in traffic even if the other car hits your car, they dont feel the need to say sorry, on top of that they argue and fight, it happened to me recently and I wanted to smack that asshole. There are so many other things which I cant think of right now due to lack of sleep, but I will def. edit it once it comes to my mind by tonight. Till than Ciao…..

Me back to edit it finally I have mentioned all the bad things about Delhi, but didnt say anything good because couldnt think of anything till now…..The good things are : Delhi is good for shopping for indian clothes, jewellry, bangles and stuff like that and the food, its yummy.  I love to eat and this is the place i can eat all my fav.desi food.  So other than shopping and eating theres nothing good about delhi, i am hating it and i wanna go back asap.

The so called Friends, you need them or you dont??

Hellow everyone,

Yes its been a long time, I admit, I was just wandering in another world till a friend said “damn woman, you need to update your blog” and than it hit me that its been a while and I need to come back to the  real world where I belong. So what the bullshit is about this time? Friends. Yes I know that I already wrote 2 posts about friends, but see I cant help it because people give me hard time, people who are/were supposed to be my friend. And yes this is a direct hit, love it or leave it. You feel bad, I dont care, dont give a damn because its enough, what say???

It started couple of months back when a friend decided to call the quits from thefriendship and I was like “Oh, so because of that stupid reason”? I tried to asl/tell whats wrong, or if the reason is that stupid gift than it was a mistake, but no someone doesnt wanna talk and give me the bullshit about “oh I trusted you and you stabbed me in the back” and do you mind telling me how did I stab you?? Or what did I do? No you dont wanna tell me than, whats the point of half the story? Either you let it out because the other person is ready to clear it all with you if its a misunderstanding or dont even say anything at all. And I bet once/when I found out the real reason for not talking, it would be so stupid.

I am not sure if the said person is gonna read it, but if you do please look at your own story of how did my best friend stabbed me, and after that if you have a change of heart and wanna share it with me, let me know. Because I sure wanna know how did and when did I stab you? And seriously thats why I wanted to write this blog, because I wanna ask everyone, do we really need friends like that who cant even talk to you like adults? Do we really need a friend who cant share the problem and specially if it involves you? Why do people act like such teenagers? I mean even they have their rules straight, so why cant you come to that person you call your friend and ask, “listen this is what i feel and i dont like it, is it true?” Confront the friend if you have a problem with him/her, or do I have to tell you that? I thought you were smart enough but if you were, you wouldnt be damn stubborn. And dont tell me I didnt try asking about whats wrong?

I guess, thats it for today, no? Well friends, go ahead, put your 2 cents in, let me know what you think.

See ya until my next post keep smiling and stay happy.

So…..sorry can’t think of a Title.

Damn, do I take forever to update my blog or what? Yea yea….anyhow, this one’s gonna be just a random post, you ask why? Because I dont have a fucking idea what am I suppose to write about? So i came to the conclusion that I will write about whole lot of things like Life, Laughter, Sadness, Happiness and keeping a touch with reality and also about some nosy people yea I know, i will be grilled for that but hey i say it like it is, too bad if you get pissed because yes the truth hurts.

Life is full of challanges, ups and downs and now everyone is so busy in their life that sometimes (or most of the times for people like me) dont get time to meet friends and share some laughs and a good beer I haven’t met any of my friends since Oct. I know this post is not making any sense, but still I would like to add some more lines. So its very important to take some time off of your busy schedule and meet your friends, it just gives you a boost and it relaxes you and sometimes I think i really need that relaxing feeling but sadly I dont get enough time, whatever time i get i chat with couple of friends and have a laugh online, this is the irony. Anyways……

And then life so full of problems, i mean who doesnt have it? Every one does, but there are some people who are worried about what’s going on in one’s life? I mean, what the fuck is wrong with you? If you don’t have any problems in your life, borrow some from me because I have enough of those. But i guess its in their nature, they can’t digest their food without the daily dose of intruding in ones life and they constantly wanna get involved with everyone else’s life but their own, I wonder why? Do you have any ideas?

Confused or just being herself?

So when I finally decided to create a blog I thought I would be writing everyday but its not happening and now I am just thinking would it be better to close it? But I know that the minute I close it, I will be dying to write something or some important stuff which I haven’t done so far. And my friends ask me if I wrote anything new? And I gladly say “Sorry dude, I will write soon” and one of my friend just asked me couple of minutes before, if I wrote something and I said, yes tonight I will, so here I am once again.

So I was thinking why girls/women are so confused?? No offense to anyone, but seriously, have you ever thought about it? The drama they create, not even God can save you from that. They create drama, they make a mole into a mountain and why not? its their right, correct? I know I will get flamed for this, but hey I am just being honest. And its not that I don’t fall in the same catagory, I do too but not too often. As I tell whoever asks me about female, I just say “Oh boy” because personally I have noticed that yes they are confused, they can’t make up their mind, they don’t know what they want. If they have this, they would want that, Why? I mean can you ever be satisfied?? I guess not. Female tend to take their time in everything….be it make up, choosing a dress, a shoe, buying a cake (sorry had to add it ) or the biggest thing when they get confused “When they meet a guy they like”. So one likes the guy but takes her sweet time to tell the fella that Yes I like you. Why beat around the bush about liking the guy but not do anything about it? Why waste time in thinking ” Yea I like this guy but I dont know”, I mean comeon, if you like the guy then just tell him, is it that hard? Why is it so hard for women to be frank and open? Yes they claim that they are frank and open, but are they really? And the other thing, why they love the Mall so much? I could never understand that, hours and hours. I have a friend who is like that, and seriously even if you have to buy 1 item, is it a must that you stay in the Mall for days? For cying out loud.

Its rare that you come across a girl who knows what she wants and what she has in her mind, who is not taking her time but thinking it thru also. A girl who likes a guy can say that yes I like you but just take it slow and see where it leads us? But *sigh* it rarely happens. Oh well…….
Don’t wanna make any woman angry and don’t worry I will def. write some male bashing post soon, so you will get a chance to put your 2 cents in too

Later……

Friends Part II

So I am bored right now and chatting with a very good friend Ms.Cutie, well I have seen one thing that everytime I chat with her we crack each other up and than fortunately I have some very good friends and some very cool you ask what’s the difference? Well the difference is with good friends you can share stuff and you can talk to them when you are upset or down, and cool friends are the friend with whom you laugh, you hang out and you are happy to be with, but you cant tell all the stuff. Then you have “The Close Friends” and I am happy to have those few close friends, don’t wanna name them because accidentally if I miss someone I will be in trouble. But I wanna mention that my close friends are true friends and then listen to my whining, and they bear with me when I yell and shout and specially Manoj and Abhishek, I have been rude to them so many times and yelled at them for no reason, or probably because I was upset and those poor souls had to listen but yes one thing is very true that “Friends are a very important part of your life” and I am happy to have my friends and these days I’ve been chatting with a new friend, a very good guy and a very nice friend Hello S.S. how are you? Talk to you tomorrow. And just wanna say to all my friends that its good to have you around.

Friends??

So this thought’s been on my mind for a few days now and I am little perturbed. Still not sure if I should go ahead with this one, but oh well. My emotions are flowing right now and I would like to apologize to anyone if this post has affected them in any way, I dont intend to hurt anyone’s feelings, I am just expressing my thoughts.

Friends are very important in one’s life. A friend who listen to you when you talk, who tells you what is right, not what you wanna hear, who gives you the shoulder when you need it, be there when you have noone to talk to. I have couple of friends like that and I am glad they are in my life. But sometimes it happens that you think of a person as your very good friend and they claim that you are their best friend, but are they really your friend? I have a friend (I will call that friend A) who claims that I am A’s best friend. A talks about this person (I would call that person B) that how A dislike B, talk about B all the time, so my question is if you dislike someone so much why be friends with them? Why invites them over and go to their place? So wouldnt it mean that A would talk behind my back too? I’ve asked this question to some of my close friends and all of them said “Yes”, so if thats the case, is A really my friend? I even hate to think about that possibility of A doing anything like that and I hope I am so wrong.

I guess I am going to end this here and will probably update it later on. Your criticism, comments and views are welcome.

Pissed!!!

Why do I get angry on such small things? I mean, sometimes I make very small detail to a big deal, its probably nothing but it annoys me,like you are trying to park your car and the person behind you wanna cross, couldn’t they wait for 2 mins? I don’t have patience at all, but I wait when someone is parking the car, so why people cant wait? It annoys the hell out of me. Just like when you see the shortest female driving a huge SUV while on the phone and not paying attention on the road and when you over take them they get all pissed and race, completely forgetting about the kids in the SUV. And old people driving in the 1st lane (no offense to anyone) but people if you don’t plan to drive over 40 on highway, get in the 3rd lane and drive. But you know how they say, “The older they get, they behave more like a kid”. Can someone tell them that the 1st lane is not for them?

Please comment on this.

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